Tim Ferris on Fear-Setting
“We suffer more often in imagination than in reality,” by Seneca the Younger
Tim Ferris has built a career on curiosity. His deep dives into human potential and psyche are fascinating and as a coach I find so intriguing. In his Ted Talk “Why you should define your fears instead of your goals” Tim reveals his struggle with bipolar tendencies and shares one of his “life hacks” to separate what you can control from what you cannot control. His Fear-Setting exercise is a great tool to decreases emotional reactivity, which Tim calls a “superpower”.
“Define” – Pre-Meditation of Evils
In simple terms, visualize the worst-case scenarios in detail. The scenarios you fear, preventing you from taking action, so that you can take action to overcome that paralysis. Define them and write them down.
Next, write down the answer to: What could I do to prevent each of these bullets from happening, or, at the very least, decrease the likelihood even a little bit?
So if the worst-case scenarios happen, what could you do to repair the damage even a little bit, or who could you ask for help? Has anyone else in the history of time less intelligent or less driven figured this out? Chances are, the answer is “Yes.”
What might be the benefits of an attempt or a partial success? If you attempted whatever you’re considering, might you build confidence, develop skills, emotionally, financially, otherwise?
“The Cost of Inaction”
What might be the atrocious cost of the status quo — not changing anything? Ask yourself: If I avoid this action or decision and actions and decisions like it, what might my life look like in, say, 6 months, 12 months, 3 years?
Where in your lives right now might defining your fears be more important than defining your goals?
Tim Ferriss has been listed as one of Fast Company‘s “Most Innovative Business People” and one of Fortune‘s “40 under 40.” He is an early-stage technology investor/advisor and the author of four #1 New York Times and Wall Street Journal bestsellers, including The 4-Hour Workweek and his latest, Tools of Titans: The Tactics, Routines, and Habits of Billionaires, Icons, and World-Class Performers. The Observer and other media have called Tim “the Oprah of audio” due to the influence of The Tim Ferriss Show podcast, which is the first business/interview podcast to exceed 100 million downloads.
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